Our child (4 years old) completely ignores anyone's nudity. From birth, we treat nudity in his presence normally, we go to Nudist beaches. Therefore, we did not notice the slightest symptoms of deviation from the norm, ie compared to the children of our textile neighbors.
Well, maybe once, when we were at our cousin's house and watched TV, at one point a naked woman was shown. Our little boy did not react to it at all, while his peer cousin made a scream and then asked for a long time why you were naked. I know that my cousin is very conservative and scrupulously hides all nudity from her daughter and scrupulously covers the nakedness of her daughter herself. The cousin has repeatedly expressed her disapproval of showing nudity and you can see that she has already instilled it in her daughter.
We are a young couple. We often watched our friends how to deal with children. From the last trip to Piasek, we are sure that we will take them to naturist beaches. When observing different situations in the family, e.g. swimming pool, sauna, it is better to instill appropriate behavior from the beginning, because then there will be problems. One time we took our niece to the swimming pool (mandatory cap and bathing suit) the wife was terrified as the child was ashamed to wash before entering the pool. After a long translation, the problem was solved, but we will try to avoid similar situations at home.
Hello, my wife and I enjoy the charms of naturism if we have such an opportunity. Our daughter now 4 years attended the beaches with us since she practically leaves the house. We also went to textile beaches sometimes. At home, of course, nudity is as natural as possible. This year we were in Monsen, we were a bit worried about how she would tell her family, friends and children from the yard about her vacation. It turned out that, as before going out to the bare beaches, the naturist center did not make any impression on her. We didn't tell her not to tell us that we went naked during our holidays. After returning, she never told anyone about nudity, she treats it as a completely normal thing, not worth mentioning, she tells how she swam, she never played a word about nudity. It seems to us that if children are not given much attention to it.
Children who have not been to such a beach before will ask and respond appropriately. The bigger they are, the more aware they are, and they should be expected to ask (or perhaps protest) their parents. And this is normal because children are excellent observers and it is natural for them to want to know everything.
I have children 4 and 6 years old, they adopt nudity as normal. Due to the fact that we used to be on a textile beach, they sometimes got lost whether they were to take off their bathing trunks or not. But they always looked at their parents with a good example. Nudity for children is like putting on or taking off gloves. Only sometimes there can be problems with this, but they do not come as a surprise.
I wrote about it on the old forum, we have a 12-year-old daughter and she has been traveling with us to naked beaches practically since she was born, at the moment she cannot imagine that she could spend weekends other than with us and she loves all our beach friends. there are pathological phenomena on the beaches, but the same thing can happen to her in the cinema, park, swimming pool or anywhere else, at least here she is with us and can learn appropriate reactions to certain situations, she is brought up without false shame and a distorted view of nudity, greetings.
It is a pity that there are many voices of people who have never been to a naked beach, and they only learn about it from the more piquant gossip and wild imaginations. It would be nice if at least once such people, instead of gossip, heard statements such as Grommit, Tommy and a few more who spoke earlier. As long as children go to the naked beach with their parents, they are certainly less vulnerable than in other places where we let them go alone. Tommy has quite a lot of experience, by no means compared to us, because he already has a 12-year-old daughter, and our children are several years younger. So far, he has not noticed the negative effects of going to the Nudist beach. From what he writes it appears that their family ties seem to be stronger than usually we can notice it for children of this age.
Therefore, I would like to tell those people who find something wrong with nudity or the risks of having children on nude beaches, not to create a problem where there is none. If we raise our children to be decent people and respect others, will naked sunbathing prevent them from doing so?
The last entry is a bit old but you might wake up.
Beloved, tell me where you can go with a child near Silesia, so that it would be noormaalniee. Where children can play together and a man with his family did not feel like a monkey in a cage. As for the matter of taking or not taking - probably yes. It seems to me that dealing with nudity, not only in the family circle, is the only way for a child to be sure that the body, nudity is something normal, that three billion people have a bird and the other three I have or not, period. That there would be no more clowns who thought that a naked woman had undressed just to ...
I see that, in most cases, parents of children aged 4, 6, 12 are speaking. But I am bothered by the question of how "children" behave at the age of 15,16,17, being on a naked beach with their parents. If at all people of this age go to the beach with their parents.
For younger children, undressing on the beach is not such a problem, because they are not going through a hormonal storm. Teens growing up feel much more ashamed of themselves because their bodies are undergoing significant changes; body hair, etc.
What do you think and do you have any experiences with older children?
And now seriously .... I am young (two ten) and I know that I would never go to the beach goal with my parents ... but this is due to the fact that parents always treated nudity like Satan and made a great out of it hello ... I think that children brought up in contact with nudity, probably even at the age of 15 or 16 (because these are the most difficult years in which they experience the most changes and prejudices towards nudity) will not have any problems with the concept of naked beach ...
As for an erection ... it seems to me that the best solution is to take my son to the water or behave like naturalists should behave when seeing that someone has "happened", that is just not paying attention to it .. because it's not mentally (well, I guess that mentally, then you need to pay attention).
deliberately or not on purpose, boy, there's literally something weird going on here ... Election ?? damn it is as natural as drinking water, and you make a problem and suckers out of it, as if I do not know what was happening, you can see that what for some people, if they see "elections at the neighbor's place, they probably start to treat him as a Single (bad) people, then people start to be sick ... I am reluctant to know that it turned out that someone's wife still has good use for someone : D, and even more so if something like this would happen to me ... being with my girlfriend and looking at her than it would happen to me looking at a bunch of naked men, and then bells, suns, flowers, people N, they do not lead me to "election" ... Well, that's about my opinions: Dabout the election and especially I would be disappointed, as on the famous beach in Dębki, if it happened to me and someone would pay attention to me then, it is worse than sick, and I would still stay with small ones and with friends because there no one pays attention to such crap, and paying attention to such things, we will not spread the N style ... I know a little bit off the topic ... By the way, I can't imagine that my children will not go to Nudist beaches ...
I think that children aged 15 or 17 (actually young people) make their own decisions whether they want to go to the naked beach and with whom, and they should not be "dragged" there. Those who visit Nudist beaches with their parents regularly, from childhood, will surely walk there with them at this age without any problems. On the other hand, if parents would like to persuade their 16-year-old child to their FIRST joint visit to Nudist Beach, then they will probably not be able to do it. If young people of this age are interested in naturism and have never been introduced to the world of naturism before, they prefer to start alone or with friends, rather than with their parents.
I write the above opinion, not because I have children at this age, but from my own experience, I became a naturist myself at the age of 16, I went to the beach alone (my parents are not naturists), there I met three friends of my age who they came alone, just like me, not knowing their parents (they all met on Nudist beach), but two others (girl 15 and boy 17) came with their parents (because they were taught this way from childhood)! This is how I became a naturist, and until recently my friends and I used to come to the beach often only in a male group or alone, as so-called singles, which in Poland is very unwelcome, and I consider it a very bad phenomenon, because I think it scares many people away potential future naturists, especially young, beginners.
When it comes to "antennae" I think that if the boy is a real naturist and not a pervert, he will try to hide his antenna himself if he happens to.
Personally, something like this happened only once during my first visit to Nudist Beach, it made me very embarrassed and I quickly hid it under a towel, but after 15 min. the problem was gone, and it never happened again.
I am the age of the people you are talking about (14,15,16,17) and I would love to go to such Nudist beaches, but I can't imagine myself on such a beach. It's about trouble getting an erection; I would be an antenna during my entire stay on the beach. :)It is because I don't have anyone to go to such beaches. Do you know any ways to "fight" erections on the Nudist beach, only more effective than rolling in the sand or bathing?
Have you ever had any teenage boy dropped by you like this? How did people react then?
The topic is as old as the world, but I am glad that it finds its position on this forum.
Without family [parents and children] there will be no Polish naturism.
In fact, I do not know if we care more about "Polish" nature, or about raising our children in a great culture and respect for ourselves and others. The worst part is that only now are parents passing on their positive experiences to their children.
There would be no problem for a teenager who wants to go to the beach "N" and does not know how to tame, if it wasn't, his natural reflexes.
I have boys 9 and 14 years old and they have not got used to being naked on a naturist beach at all, just at home.
People who take their children to "N" beaches from an early age are those who choose to overcome educational obstacles from the lowest bar.
This will pay off in a later, mature period.
Someone who entered naturism through a side door, persuading others, and even more so his maladjusted children, wants to pursue his own unclean goals under the protective coat of the family.
The best example is that of a parent treating nudity as something very natural and commonplace.
Such behavior in caregivers does not need to be supported by any philosophy. They will be perceived by the child as positive.
It is good that people such as Tommy and Witek M. are present here. It proves that it is going better.
Now, advice for those [including the "wild" who want to enjoy the good of nature and run naked in their teenagers).
... Remember that those who got used to nudity for years, have sensed other senses [apart from sight], which allow them to perceive sexual stimuli in more intimate conditions than those prevailing on the beach or in the sauna.
You have to be patient and, in solitude, or in your own [preferably co-educational] group, to work on yourself. I advise against entering a hit alone, because it is not about your body, but about your psyche ...
The moment you start dressing a beautiful girl in sensual lingerie or clothes with your eyesight, and not undress, as they usually do to those under the sign of "white, sad and very sensitive to erythema d ...", it will mean that it is OK.
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