Well, I believe that if the child is not introduced until the age of 10-11, then at an older age this may already be a problem. Then he already had his own opinion ... For girls, it’s probably even better to have time before 7-9 years old. But here it is also important HOW to do it. It is best if in the team where the child is supposed to be introduced, there would be his peers. And older, and younger, and both sexes. So that the child sees that "we are not alone." Then this, as it is ... "cognitive dissonance" can generally be reduced to zero. Because we have our own cognitive here ...
I read that studies have been conducted that show that nudist children perceive the naked body as natural, they, unlike other children, have no desire to peep, and there is less curiosity about the sex differences between boys and girls. A smaller percentage also enters into early sexual intercourse than among "ordinary" children.
On the other hand, this issue is very delicate. Children do not like differences, I mean that at school for being "not like everyone else" or parents "not like everyone else" you can very easily become an outcast.
Hello! I think children can be taken up to 5 years old, they still don’t understand. After that, I wouldn't recommend it. This is due to the fact that in the future it can result in psychological illnesses, not serious, but unpleasant. For example, later on, a grown child will not have a desire to have sex, etc. Therefore, let them choose for themselves "to be a nudist or not" at least from the age of 17, and even better from the age of 18.
It has long been known to everyone that small children do not experience any discomfort being naked even on textile beaches. This is because they take their natural state for granted, they have not yet been instilled, the shame of the body has not been imposed. After all, these are only the installations of the society around us, nothing more. And therefore, in my opinion, you just need to let your children make their own choice, but at the same time explain that there are norms of behavior in society, and they must be observed.
In general, what leads to mental illness is that parents try to raise children in an extremely puritanical style, while at school and on the street everything is completely different. and this is where the conflict of attitudes begins, which can end in frustration.
In addition, puberty begins at 12-14 years of age. And just from this age, sexual attraction begins to form (these are average numbers, so it's pointless to find fault with them). And not 18 years old. In fact, in almost all cultures, the normal age for marriage was considered just 12-15 years old. It was believed that just by this age a person becomes an adult and can be quite consciously responsible for his actions. And each time it was determined individually. For example, with the help of some kind of ritual - how ready for it, then an adult. And 18 years is an extreme convention. That is, at 17 years 11 months and 30 days, the psyche is still not strong, but at the age of 18 it is already quite strong.
All sorts of norms of social behavior, again, were invented by society itself. There are Papuan children from childhood running around naked, like their parents, and nothing. They do not have any psychoses on the topic of sex as a class. Therefore, it all depends on the parents, how they want to raise the child. For example, I am not a fanatical naturist. If it is impossible to swim without swimming trunks, I will quite calmly and splash in them with pleasure. Therefore, there is an opinion that if from childhood to bring up in children a calm attitude to this topic, and not to drive them in that they need to sunbathe exclusively without panties, then they will not experience any problems either with the psyche or with sexual desire.
If the children are already big, and you want to bring them to a boring beach, it all depends on the settings that you laid in them before.
Here is such a logical conclusion.
If the parents are nudists, and the child communicates with nudists from childhood, then this is probably normal, to be honest, I personally would like to communicate with people whose children have been involved in nudism since childhood, and who have already grown up, and with the children themselves, but already grown up . 3 years ago we accidentally hit a nudist beach (we are me, my then 14 year old daughter and friend is 30 years old), but we sunbathed a little further, there were nudists on the right, homosexuals were behind, it was certainly cool, a year later I first got into the baths naturists, then to the beach and now I can’t imagine how I used to live without it, my daughter told me that she would never forget how I brought them to a nudist beach, that it was terrible, now she knows that I have been visiting for 3 years nudist baths and the beach, takes this calmly, but I don’t go there myself, and I can’t persuade my friend to visit these places, maybe her personal life would improve right away ...
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