The other day we talked about going to Cap d´Adge in France this summer. My boyfriend wants us to take my kids with us (Two girls aged 9 and 11). They have not been before, and I have noticed that there are almost no children on Danish beaches / camping. So I do not know how it is abroad.
Should we take them with us? Or let them stay at their father's house?
The most important thing is to find out what the children themselves want? How do they feel about naturism. If the kids are fine with naturism, then I see no reason not to take the kids with them. Even know someone who has brought children to Cap d'Agde.
It all depends on how old the kids are and how they feel about their body and nudity.
I myself always walked around naked until I was approx. 4-5 years old, so as soon as I had the chance - my parents have told me. I do not remember it myself now.
But since I was then in puberty, I certainly did not want to show myself naked. I would definitely as a 12-13 year old have experienced it as an assault if someone had lured me along to a naturist camp. Like I found it uncomfortable to be forced to bathe naked after gymnastics and such. I actually experienced it a bit as an abuse (so let the children decide for themselves if they want to keep the swimwear on!)
My advice: talk to the kids about it and let them make the decision themselves without luring them into anything or pushing something down over their heads.
I would say it's a bad time to take them with you. Take your holiday for yourself and wait to take them to the beach this summer.
We started ourselves as naturists two summers ago.
We even have two girls aged 12 and 14.
When they were on the beach for the first time, and then there were other children who were naked there, they also threw away their clothes, some days they kept their swimwear on, other days they were naked.
Here on the west coast a lot of Germans come, will say they are more free to be naked also their children.
Have experienced that they often wear swimwear when they play on the beach, and throw away the swimwear when they have to swim. someone is naked all the time.
For example, this summer I experienced that our two girls they were allowed to decide which beach we went on, we have two naturist beaches close to us. Kandested and skiverstrand.
My advice to you, wait to take them with you this summer and find a place where you are alone or where there are other family naturists.
Of course, there are children in the naturist place - as in a completely normal textile place. It is my personal position that one must not pressure the kids about. their modesty limit. It has not been a problem for our family at all. Until they become aware of their own nudity, it does not matter ... Then they have to decide for themselves. Our kids (middle teenage age) are not very shy. At home they can walk without clothes - and in the naturist places it is no problem if they are with us or other adults.
They are quite social and quickly find the other teenage kids in the square, and here they quickly find themselves in the common dress code.
They are quite conscious when they are with other young people.
It is our experience that virtually all places accept the "peculiarities" of teenage kids. In black, all seats are perfectly OK for teenagers to wear swimwear on the seat.
In the pool area, they usually have to be naked.
In the pool, nudity applies to everyone.
It is our opinion that the kids always accept the code of the place - at least we have never experienced problems of any kind.
As I said, our kids are pretty unproblematic at this point. It has not been a problem to "introduce" them to naturism, we practice nudity at home as a natural part of our behavior and find that the kids have "jumped in" on this lifestyle.
In particular, they have found by themselves that e.g. to swim is even cooler without clothes on - and when you lie on the beach / in the pool area, wet swimwear is just not very nice (but it must be tried before you understand).
Most importantly, I think that you
1. at home practice nudity, without pressuring the kids (but just show that it is OK to be naked)
2. outside do not press them, but appear naturally naked.
It was a long smorgasbord, I hope I got the answer to everything.
Hey
I'm a young guy on the 21st. I grew up in a nudist family and have often been to camp and at nude beach with the old ones ever since I was little. And I've been absolutely cool with that. It was only right at the beginning of puberty that it was a little embarrassing. When you are 12 and your parents can see that your craze suddenly stands up in the middle of it all and all of a sudden has got hair on and has doubled in a few months, then it is a bit embarrassing. Especially one day when my mom teased me and said that now I was almost as big as dad "down there", I got RET red in the head.🙂
But since they had seen it a few times and said that it was normal for boys that one's craze grows a lot in a short time and one gets stiffened, I was more indifferent. You just have to get used to it. I think most of it is at that age you think about it all the time, because when you are a little older you learn that everyone is almost the same in a way. So there is nothing to be ashamed of. Get over it!
We have always had children and now also in-laws and grandchildren on the stand and been naked together both here in Denmark, but also on holiday in Germany (FKK areas). Especially in Germany, there are many children and young people on the Fkk beaches.
Have fun. We are going to Usedom with the whole family in July.
I also do not think that these naturists in e.g. Cap d´Agde are as innocent even as they claim.
For example, I have heard that for years (though I do not know if it is going on yet) beauty contests have been held for teenage girls down to 12-13 years down in Cap d´Agde! In other words, a clear sexualization of naturist teenage girls.
So I do not give much for the sacred hypocrisy of naturists that they see nothing sexual in naturism and that teenagers can just walk around freely down there. I bet there are a lot of men out there for young girls who get a kick out of walking around down there! But you just do not get them to admit it :)
This is not to say that teens can not be naturists. But I think you should think about it as a parent before taking your teenagers, especially girls in puberty, down to a naturist camp. For I actually believe that many of the men present are less innocent than they pretend to be. But maybe it's just me who sees ghosts ?!
I must say I am a man of 39 years who has been a summer naturist since I was very young, and enjoys swimming and sunbathing naked, just like the other 99% of naturists, yes yes me and my boyfriend have also "enjoyed" the beach every now and then, but then so in the dunes; o) and not where everyone else can look !! but that is not why we are naturists.
Then there are many who think that single men on the beach are "child lures" hmm, but most are older men where the wife has passed away, or there are men where the wife is at work, I know because we have known part of them quite a few years eventually.
Whether you should take the children with you or not, ask them, but before you go to France's large and delicious nudist camp (see the film nude, from the start's film center), take the girls to a Danish nudist beach and see how they take it.
Children on Danish nudist beaches
we come to Kærneland near Skovby on the island ALS, and here come some children (we like to lie with other families) however, there are most when the Germans have a holiday, but they now also play well with them.
Ps. I have never hidden what boys and girls look like without clothes on, and have also often had my children in the shower because nudity is not Taboo in our family. This might also make it natural for my two girls to be naked with other people.
Hoping for a really good holiday with or without swimwear on; o)
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