The following problem: I have a daughter who is 10 years old and has not yet reached puberty. I plan to take her and my wife on holiday to the German Baltic Sea coast next year to swim naked at the nudist beach there. However, I'm not sure if my daughter would also like to be naked on the beach and be seen by strangers. When I look back on my childhood, being naked on a nudist beach when I was prepubescent (7-12 years old) was unimaginable. It was somehow babyish and uncool and if my classmates had known about it, they would certainly have laughed at me, insulted and annoyed me, which is why I would never have dared to go nudist.
Here is my question: do older children, i.e. children between the ages of 7 and 12, like to be naked in public (e.g. in a nude sauna or on a nudist beach)? Do children between the ages of about 7 and 12 have a problem with being seen completely naked by other children of the same age? Wouldn't other kids laugh at my daughter for being completely naked on a nudist beach?
And is the daughter also your wife's daughter?
If so, is it yours and not just your daughter, and then I wonder why you don't talk to your daughter first and ask her what she thinks of naturist holidays at all? Because if she doesn't want to, you won't be able to convince her with affirmative answers from w-w-w users.
When I think back to my childhood at that age, it would have been unthinkable for me at that age and before and also later to show myself naked on any beach.
Hello,
when you go on vacation next year, your ten-year-old daughter may well have hit puberty. Please keep in mind that it is not only about being looked at, but also about what the daughter sees.
She is currently experiencing that boys and girls are separated in swimming and sports lessons.
On the other hand, I've seen kids in the sauna who are really at ease there.
I was confronted with it at that age and thought it was really nasty. Especially since they didn't offer me an alternative.
Apart from that, this can still change until the next holiday. And then she's probably just at the age between childhood and puberty when many children have problems with their bodies because their feet grow too fast and the rest too slowly, and maybe they have a little breast, but not a real one yet.
So I wouldn't do that to a 10 year old kid when nudity is mandatory there, and that's usually the case for a real naturist, isn't it?
Except maybe I'd been taking this kid on a longer naturist vacation at least once a year for at least 10 years, then he'd be used to it by now. But then you wouldn't be asking here.
You can't give a general answer to that.
It all depends on your upbringing and how you've dealt with nudity at home before...
On the topic of other children and laughing at them.
If you see it as completely normal, you can't even be laughed at, but at that age it can't be avoided that one or the other giggles silly at the idea of the nude beach, but that's more immaturity than real laughing at...
But basically I would ask my daughter first before I think about other things...
How the daughter will feel depends mainly on the previous upbringing. If in your personal environment, i.e. in the family, nudity is nothing special (i.e. if you don’t panic when changing or getting dressed when the child comes along) but continues unimpressed, then nothing should stand in the way of a naturist holiday. I think the question is in the wrong place here. It should be given to the daughter. But since that seems to be a problem for you, I believe that nothing will come of the naturist holiday.
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