I don't know how you do, I have 3 daughters (5,8,9) and I've been teaching them since they were little that nudity is natural. I don't see why they should be ashamed, they are young and beautiful. So why can't they be naked. We also go naked at home and there is nothing special about it.
We don't go naked at home, but we don't hide our nudity. Me, my husband, our daughter and son, 17 and 15 years old, walk around naked for example for a towel, pajamas, etc. We see nudity as natural and children are raised that way. Programmatically, we enjoy nudity best on naturist vacations and the like. We also talk about sex with the children without any problems, so that they can be educated in time.
We don't go naked at home, but we don't go naked at home either, but we have a swimming pool behind the barracks, and 13- and 15-year-old children swim there naked. I don't see anything wrong with it and it's definitely better than a wet bathing suit. In the winter, we go swimming where there is also a common changing room and showers, and the children don't see any problem with that.
Well, I don't know, it seems to me already... Yes, Mirko, you are right, not everyone behaves like that, there are many families with puritanical morals, where the word nudity is perhaps even forbidden. Everyone is ashamed and covering up, parents punish children for masturbating... I really feel sorry for them. But if Gábina is a good mother, she talks about it with the children, that it is not automatically possible to strip naked at a friend's pool. Conversely, yes, when a friend comes to see them, tell them that they don't wear swimsuits in the garden at home, don't force them.....and the visitor almost always tries it too. And those who have once experienced the comfort of bathing without, will quickly forget the shame and will enjoy it too. I assure you that in such families the parents do not even think of snooping on the children, nudity is completely natural there.
I never hid from children. Better for them to see what a normal woman looks like from home than to have distorted ideas from the Internet. Now I have a 10-month-old baby, my daughter is 12 and my son is 14. I'm still fully breastfeeding and I don't wear a top at home. I want them to know how important breastfeeding is, and they usually do. I don't force the children to be naked, if it's comfortable for them, they are naked, my daughter is not particularly ashamed of her socks even near the water. It seems natural to us that breasts are not something indecent that must be hidden.
Let whoever wants to write here... look, women are mostly ashamed. At the same time, if your son sees you, I mean naked, what else will he see besides your ass and breasts? Nothing below. If you are unshaven, they will see black growth, if you are, they will only see a line, the same as the girl. He won't stare between your legs, he'll just see out of the corner of his eye that you look basically the same as the little girls in kindergarten somewhere. It's hotter with girls, they'll see that dad doesn't have a penis like boys, like a little one, but much bigger. That's all, they won't care, they'll take it as a joke. If children are not used to it from a young age, then they stare when they later see a naked person, they watch various nudities on the Internet, etc. Children need to be taught that these organs are not shown outside, even if young children and actually up to 10 years of age are fine, boys pee somewhere in the park, girls too, I've seen several times even in the center of the thresholds above the museum in the park, girls about 11. In the end, no one looks at them, they show their butt, maybe no one looks between their legs. But nudity is not a bad thing, it just can't be in public. It's something else on the beach designed for that, and why not at home? The kids will see the parents anyway, so what.
I grew up in a family where...I know it from home, I wasn't allowed to see my mother or grandmother, my father lived separately, divorced. At home, I don't mind leaving the bathroom naked in front of my mom and grandma, but I find it embarrassing to see them. I've been living with my girlfriend for a few years, originally the girl was 9 and the boy was 7. Normally, I used to swim naked in front of them, for example, outside, where there were fewer people. They didn't mind at all, the girlfriend didn't, just the goats outside, a tiny thong, but she won't take it off. When they were little, they bathed in swimsuits, but they changed normally, just naked for a while, I didn't mind them. Now the girl is shy, she already has breasts (bigger than her mother's...), she is almost 14. When changing, she shows her tits for a while, but not below, she has to put a towel around her. She locks herself in the bathroom at home, but I normally walk naked in front of her at home. We don't mind, he's good for a girl that he sees a grown man from childhood and puberty than when the puritans are at home and then he sees it and stares. I don't understand the shame a bit, her mom is not that shy. My girlfriend is a little older than me, but she is thin and pretty.
A beach full of people. A mother and son arrived by bicycle. She didn't have much, she was naked right away. The son lingered a bit and stayed in his shorts. Take your clothes off, Mom ordered, we're going into the water. Yes. Now. Her son was loitering behind her. He had a white butt. It was obvious that it was unusual for him. When the son returned to the blanket, the mother was sunbathing with her knees bent. Son stood next to the blanket and mom wiped him dry with a towel. Then he lay down next to her and they sunbathed. In an hour, the son didn't even notice that he was naked anymore and was playing with a little girl who came after him and immediately took off his clothes.
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